Should kids get their own pet?
Almost every child asks for a pet of their own at some point. This could range from wanting a family dog, all the way down to a pet of their own that they care for exclusively. Sometimes, such as when a member of the family has severe allergies, or want a fantasy pet that doesn’t exist, making that choice is easy.
Other times, it’s a delicate balance between the pros and cons of raising your kids alongside pets. Here are a few things to consider, both positive and negative.
Taking care of a pet does teach responsibility
The reality is of course, you will probably end up doing the majority of pet care for what ever pet is chosen. Many pets find themselves in the shelter because the children promised to take care of it and didn’t.
If you’re not prepared to help take care of the animal, not getting the pet at all is the best choice, but kids who have pets generally become more responsible than those that don’t.
Even if you do end up with the majority of care, ensuring your child has a daily task involving animal care can help them take responsibility in a fun way.
Kids with a pet are more active
Walking the dog, playing fetch, and other activities often lead to more activity for your child. Even if their pet is small, such as a pocket pet, spending time with their animal or taking care of it gets them away from screens and doing something with more movement.
Reading to pets improve reading skills
It can be very embarrassing for new readers to read aloud to their peers or adults. A pet however, whether it be a dog, cat, horse or turtle, will never judge these budding young readers on their skills. Without the pressure of having to read to someone who might criticize them for their mistakes, they can simply enjoy the act of reading and gain valuable practice.
Pets provide companionship
Having a pet is a comforting experience. Whether its a dog that looks forward to an afternoon walk, or a cat snuggling down in a comfortable lap, pets of all variety can be a great comfort to children. Pets can reduce loneliness, and also many mental health issues such as anxiety and depression.
Not every pet is right for children, and not all children are right for pets. Most experts recommend getting a durable pet that won’t die if it isn’t given very specific care, such as dogs, cats, and guinea pigs.
Many shelters allow pets to be “Trialed” at home before committing to an adoption, which is a great choice when it’s a family home. It’s easier to see if the pet is the right fit for everyone, and they’re typically adults with already established temperaments.
If you’re not sure if the kids are really up for a pet, or worry that you may adopt an animal only to discover it’s not a child friendly option, these trials are a great way to find a family friend.
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