Why are you here?

At some point in your life, this question will probably pop into your brain. Most of us want to believe that there is more to life than just existing, and that we came to this Earth for a purpose. Even if you believe you came to be alive by pure chance, giving your life meaning and purpose can help improve your life in a variety of ways.

So how do you know what your life purpose is? Especially if life hasn't gone the way you planned, and maybe even robbed you of the identity you thought you had? Here's a couple of questions that can help you narrow down what life goals you should aim for.

What do you hate the least?

There is a downside to everything in life. A baby might be the most precious gift on earth, but it comes with its share of dirty diapers. You may be passionate about becoming a doctor, but that also comes with drawing blood or even watching patients fall ill and die.

Everything has a downside, so if you want to choose a life purpose, you can narrow down your choices by picking something with the downsides you mind the least.

What puts you in 'the zone?'

Have you ever worked on a project and gotten so enthralled, you glanced up at the time and was shocked to see how much time has flown by? Moments like this can help you home in on what your purpose is. Whether you can easily hum your way through an hour in the garden, or you want to dive back in for another lap in the pool, things you love to do are a sign you are passionate.

What embarrasses you?

Okay, let's face it. We all have something tucked away in the closet of our mind that we want to try, or maybe dream about doing, but won't because it's too embarrassing. Maybe you secretly think you could write rom-coms or romance novels, but the idea is just too undignified. Maybe you want to run, or dance, or put yourself out there in some other way, but are afraid you'll be mocked for it.

If you avoid these things, chances are you're also avoiding something that could be your big passion. While this on its own won't stop you from finding your true calling, it does narrow your options. If something embarrasses you but you still want to try it, try it anyway. You never know.

Finding a purpose in life doesn't have to be world changing. You could be the very best person in the world at building with legos, or that mom who packs spectacular bento boxes for your kid's lunch. It doesn't have to please the world to be perfect. It just has to be perfect for you.

Sometimes when we announce that we want to find the cure for cancer or the vaccine for aids, we're not saying these things because we genuinely want to do these things—we're just seeking affirmation. It's okay for your life purpose to mean something only to you. After all, you're the one who has to live it.